I don't what your reference point is, but to me, Yes, they are really that weak; not designed for towing. Post a picture of your cleats (with a ruler or yard stick laying beside them, as a size-reference). Maybe Parker used larger/adequate ones on your boat; if so, that's a step in the right direction. ..... It also would depend on what size boat, (the boat you're towing) and in what sea-conditions. Even most 'normal' cleats, are not designed to be used for towing; but I suppose you could tow a kayak or other small boat, in calm water.... As a last resort I might consider using the 'lift-rings' on the transom, but even then, towing only a small boat, in calm conditions.